Sometimes it sounds foolish or frustrating to think positive when times are really bad and a few people make it worse for you, doesn't it?

But just tell me, if I call you tomorrow morning, while you are still in bed and say, "You are an Angel for me and I'm blessed to have such a good person in my life. May God bless you".

<b>How would you feel?</b>

Won't it be a great feeling and a great way to start a fantastic day?

Next morning I again call you but this time I say, "You Rascal! You are the dumbest and most foolish person on the earth I've ever met. You screwed me and you will be screwed...etc".

<b>How would you feel now?</b>

Of course it would be a frustrating day, with a sad feeling, because you heard all the crap in the morning while you were still in bed!

Now answer my question - <b>"Who is controlling 'your' life?" </b>

<b>Am I supposed to control YOUR life? Is that right?</b>

<b>When I say something good about you, does it makes you a good person and vice versa?</b>

<b>NO, YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN LIFE!</b>